Fatherhood has interrupted this blog.
My wife and I welcomed our first child into the world last Wednesday, June 16. The 7 pound, 4 ounce little bundle of joy has dramatically changed our lives in less than a week. Even though we had 9 months to prepare, parenthood is one of those things that, I believe, you have to learn on the job.
The classes and books are nice, but when you’ve got a screaming four-day-old child projectile pooping on your shirt while you’re trying to change his diaper at three in the morning…well, books ain’t gonna help much.
Yesterday, my first Father’s Day, I was able to hold the little man and sit back and watch the U.S. Open. No amount of money could buy a better Father’s Day gift than that. Even with the near constant diaper changes, it was one of the best days of my life. I just soaked it all in–pun intended. I think he’s a Mickelson fan already, so he wasn’t crazy about McDowell winning the Open. He peed on me not long after that final putt.
Parenthood is going to bring major changes. My golf game is about to take a serious hit, more than likely. I’m hoping my blog posts won’t slow down, and with all the late nights to come, my guess is that it won’t. But, like I said, the life changes are totally worth it–and meaningless in comparison to the little man. Golf, restaurants–it all can wait.
Like any new father, I envision a future of throwing the baseball, swinging the golf club, playing in the yard. I can’t wait for all of that. But as I sit here and type up this post in my dimly lit office, with the little 7 pounder curled up in the bassinet next to me, all I want to do is just soak this all in. They grow up fast, I’m told. I’m going to enjoy every second while it lasts–even the projectile poop.
Gotta run.
June 21, 2010 at 10:28 pm
Congratulations, May he have many sub-par rounds in his golfing life. All my best
June 22, 2010 at 10:59 am
That does sound like an unbeatable Father’s Day.
June 22, 2010 at 3:30 pm
Congratulations.
July 1, 2010 at 8:43 pm
Fantastic! Congratulations, Robert. By the way, fatherhood is capable of interrupting a lot of things, blogs included.
July 1, 2010 at 9:11 pm
A somewhat belated, but heartfelt, congratulations, Robert. It sounds like you have things in the proper perspective.
July 5, 2010 at 10:54 am
Just like the song says “don’t blink”, I blinked and Wham! It takes my breathe. Just remember, don’t sweat the small stuff, let him pick out his own clothes when he is 2, sleep in your bed when he is scared, and play silly games when he wants to. This days will zoom by before you know. You have become a great father, which doesn’t suprise me, because we had the best example in the world. Love you Bob:)
July 14, 2010 at 10:03 am
Congratulations. I’m sure there will be many great father-son memories made on the golf course in the years to come.
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July 21, 2010 at 5:52 am
congratulations! Maybe several years later, you can buy a video game player for him^^ Hello, this is Tracy from Lasecn Tech which is a professional company in the field of video game accessories and repair parts.
July 22, 2010 at 10:15 pm
Congrats! That’s awesome! We’re expecting in October – a boy as well. The golf season will be mostly over by then…I plan accordingly (LOL).
February 6, 2011 at 3:14 am
great father
March 8, 2011 at 3:44 pm
Congratulations! It is wonderful to share moments on the golf course with my son. The memories are priceless. You are going to love it.
August 27, 2011 at 10:44 pm
Way to go. Wish everyone had their priorities in order. I remember a friend of mine playing golf while his wife was still in the hospital after delivery. They’re not married anymore.